If a person lives in the world, the best "doctor" is himself.
the ancients said:
"he who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise."
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but in life, there are always some people who are used to thinking of themselves as saints, judging others a little, but turning a blind eye to their own faults.
all living beings are not perfect, and everyone will inevitably make mistakes.
Don't always focus on other people's shortcomings, learn to find reasons from yourself, learn to "see a doctor" for yourself, and examine yourself, so that you can really know yourself.
people should be good at finding their own "faults"
as the saying goes, "if you don't know, it's enough; if you don't know, you're sick."
there is no perfect gold, no one is perfect.
all people in the world have their faults. And the biggest disadvantage is not knowing it.
once upon a time, there was a champion who welcomed the princess. He was very clean. Every time he went out, he always asked the princess to make her clothes spotless.
one day, he drafted a playbook to enter Beijing to face the saints. Unexpectedly, when he was dressed, he saw a mud spot on the official hat.
was immediately furious. When the princess saw this, she quickly picked up her official hat and scrubbed it.
unexpectedly, instead of wiping off the mud spot, it became bigger and bigger.
it was almost time to start, and the officials had no choice but to enter Beijing wearing a hat with mud spots. I was still complaining about the princess when I set out.
when he saw the emperor, he was going to give the emperor his own playbook. Unexpectedly, when he touched his pocket, he found that when he went out just now, he was only thinking about the mud on the official hat and forgot to bring the playbook.
after returning home, he threw all his anger at the princess, but the princess could not bear the humiliation and went to Beijing all night to complain to the emperor.
the emperor was displeased by the events of the day, and when he heard that he insulted the princess, he immediately ordered him to take off his official hat of the champion and demoted him to the common people.
and he finally didn't know why he got this way.
the ancients said: "
there is nothing wrong with a villain, but a gentleman often passes.
when you encounter problems, you only know how to blame others and don't look for reasons from yourself, then your wisdom in life will stop.
only by self-examination, being good at finding your own "faults" and actively changing them, can you become a better self.
see the illness in your words and deeds
as the old saying goes, "it is better to keep the middle than to speak too much."
Laozi told us to keep our mouth shut and lose too many words.
people often say, "illness comes in from the mouth, and evil comes out from the mouth."
many people always speak openly and never take into account the feelings of others.
do not realize that this will not only hurt others, but also cause trouble.
once upon a time, there was a child who was so grumpy that none of the other teachers and brothers liked him.
when the Taoist saw this, he went down the hill and bought a bag of nails. When he came back, he told the Taoist
"the next time you lose your temper, put a nail in the door of the room.
the path boy agreed to the Taoist's request, and on the same day, he ordered 30 nails on the door.
at this time, he was also aware of his problem and began to correct it.
, he put fewer nails on the door than the day before.
until one day, he didn't drive a nail into the wall.
after knowing this, the Taoist told him that if he could not lose his temper for the next day, he would pull out a nail.
soon, all the nails on the door were pulled out.
the Taoist said to the child:
although all the nails have been pulled out, they have left a deep hole, just like you lose your temper. Every time you lose your temper, you will leave scars on the people around you.
No matter how many sorry words you say, those injuries will stay, just like these holes.
mouth is a hurtful axe, words are cutting knives.
you can see the "faults" in your words and deeds, and keep your mouth shut in order to keep your luck.
A man's best "doctor" will always be himself
the ancients said, "if you can't do it, you can't do it."
oneself is the root of everything. It is a person's greatest accomplishment to find a reason from himself when he encounters something.
once upon a time, there was a woman who, I don't know, always had the same dream at night.
in the dream, the woman stood in front of an iron cage, which was dark, but she kept screaming harshly. The woman always had the courage to approach the cage, but every time she was about to get close, she was awakened by the cry.
over time, the woman's health went from bad to worse, so her family took her to the Taoist temple on the mountain to seek the help of the Taoist priest.
after hearing the whole story, the Taoist gave the woman a key and told her: there is a lock on the cage in the dream. If you open the lock with this key, your health will be fine naturally.
that night, the woman took the advice of the preacher and approached the cage with the key. This time, the cry was gone.
but when the woman approached the cage, she found that the people in the cage were all people she hated. The woman thought, even if I have been sick, I should not let these people out.
soon the woman's condition became more and more serious, and her family visited the monk again, but the monk said, "only she can save her now."
the family told the woman what the Taoist had said. After listening, the woman decided to open the cage with the key.
that night, the woman approached the iron cage and unlocked it. The cage disappeared instantly, and everyone swarmed out. At the end of the crowd, there was a shadow, and when she came closer, it was herself.
when a person lives in the world, he who knows himself best is himself, and the best "doctor" is himself.
from today on, examine yourself and constantly improve yourself.
when you get rid of your shortcomings, you will become strong and the good things that belong to you will flock to you!