To allow others to set their beak and keep their original mind is not only to forgive others, but also to forgive themselves.
as the old saying goes, "with magnanimity and compatibility, all things will benefit at the same time."
if a person has a broad mind and can be inclusive, then everything in heaven and earth can live in harmony with it.
A person's whole life is a process of constantly seeing heaven and earth, sentient beings and self.
if you can tolerate all kinds of things in the world, you can withstand the ups and downs of fate.
on the contrary, they can only succumb to the square inch of land surrounded by themselves.
only if you can tolerate people, can you win the hearts of the people
Xue Xianzeng, a famous thinker in the Ming Dynasty, said:
"only breadth can accommodate people, and only thickness can carry things."
there is always no shortage of people who support him, whether he is proud of himself or a tiger falls in Pingyang.
you know, there is a vast sea of people, there are modest gentlemen, and there is no shortage of treacherous villains.
people who tolerate others can always see the difficulties of others and understand the hardships of the world.
for those who have hurt themselves, it is a high accomplishment to be able to laugh it off.
Zuo Zongtang is notoriously short-tempered because he is unruly and defiant.
he was so fond of swearing that even Zeng Guofan, who carried him, was not spared.
Zeng Guofan should respect Zuo Zongtang because he is grateful to him.
but Zuo Zongtang was arrogant and did not take Zeng Guofan seriously. At home, he repeatedly scolded Tseng Kuo-fan for being "hijacked" and his tutor Fan Jing, from the embarrassment of hearing it at first to becoming bored at last.
however, Zeng Guofan laughed at Zuo Zongtang's abuse. He once spoke highly of Zuo Zongtang in his playbook to Emperor Xianfeng:
"just Ming endures hardships and Xiaochang fighters. Guo is lucky to have Zuo Zongtang. "
the amount of a gentleman is not extreme, and he swallows all rivers in his chest. Zeng Guofan's tolerance finally won the admiration of the world.
at that time, Zeng Zuo, who were both "four famous courtiers in the late Qing Dynasty", often ranked Zeng Guofan in front of Zuo Zongtang.
he asked the attendant, "Why do people say 'Zeng Zeng' instead of 'Zuo Zeng'?"
the attendant said bluntly, "Zeng Gong often had Zuo Gong in his heart, but Zuo Gong did not."
people are impressed by those who can tolerate people because they can accept all kinds of rivers. On the other hand, those who are bound to report the canthus of Jair will suffer because of their private morality, and everyone will stay away from them.
youdao is, all over the world, each has its own beauty.
No matter people in cloth clothes or in high positions, everyone's ability is limited.
can you see others, have room for others, ask the able people for advice, and pave the way for the weak, so that the road under your feet will become wider and wider.
those who are really strong are all loud voices and elephants are invisible.
they will not lie in their past achievements to criticize others, let alone denigrate them for their own selfish desires.
you can only get things done if you have something to do
as the saying goes, "if you are generous in quantity, you can shade the tree."
this is true.
those who achieve great things must be good at acceptance and tolerance, struggle in setbacks and grow up in suffering.
Life is a sea of mountains and rivers.
only by withstanding the baptism of wind and rain can we have hard armor and cut through difficulties on the road of life; those who fail to recover will only sink deeper and deeper and eventually get lost in endless grief and resentment.
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Sima Qian, a historian of the Western Han Dynasty, took over the post of Tai Shi Ling after the death of his father Sima Tan, and complied with his father's last wishes, determined to compile a history book that was unprecedented and never came before.
however, things are unpredictable.
General Li Ling went to the Huns. After being ambushed, Li Ling was outnumbered and surrendered.
after the news came back to the court, civil and military men and women in Manchuria were impeaching what Li Ling had done.
only Sima Qian came forward and advised Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, saying that Li Ling was morally loyal, brave and good at fighting, and that he was a loyal general who served his country. This surrender must be an expedient measure, and he will surely choose the opportunity to return to the Central Plains.
before long, Sima Qian was implicated in prison and subjected to cruel "corrupt punishment".
Sima Qian, who was humiliated by this, did not collapse. He knew full well that he had a great responsibility and worked harder, and devoted all his energy to the creation of history books.
Historical Records, which creates the first general history of biographical style in China, is listed as the first of the "twenty-four histories" because of its rich and accurate historical materials. Lu Xun once appraised Shiji as "the last song of historians, without rhyme, Li Sao."
youdao is, has gone through the vicissitudes of life, mulberry fields are still the same, except Wushan, the clouds are light and the wind is light.
most people's lives are full of ups and downs, if they are allowed to sink into the quagmire and can not extricate themselves, entangled in the past grudges, honors and disgrace gains and losses, they will only fail to see the direction of the road ahead, and finally waste themselves.
those enviable winners are just more open-minded, less persistent, more leisurely, and less confused than others.
only when you can tolerate words can you act steadily
once read a short story:
Hanshan and Gaide are two famous poetic monks.
one day, Hanshan asked, "what should we do if there are people in the world who slander me, deceive me, humiliate me, laugh at me, despise me, base me, and deceive me?"
pickup replied, "just put up with him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear him, respect him, ignore him, stay a few more years, and look at him."
I think so.
A broad-minded person must be a kind person who will not haggle over every penny because of a dispute of words. They often have a compassionate heart and take care of sentient beings.
Su Shi, who was excluded in his middle age, was later sent to prison because of the Wutai Poetry case.
after being detained for more than four months, Su Shi was relegated to Huangzhou as deputy envoy of regiment training, a junior official who had no real power and was supervised.
Su Shi fell into the trough of life from the leader of the literary world, the imperial guard of the dynasty, to people who spoke lightly and no one cared about him.
one evening, Su Shi paced home with his friends, and a drunken man came face to face. As he brushed past, the drunk lost his balance and made Su Shi dodge and fall to the ground.
when the drunken man saw this, instead of apologizing, the villain complained first, scolding Su Shi for walking without long eyes.
Su Shi, who is nearly 50 years old, recovered after falling to the ground for a long time. The friend was resentful and wanted to argue for him, but he was stopped by Su Shi.
he looked at the relentless drunk beside him and smiled and said, "it's interesting that people here don't know me. I can open up a new world."
the Book of morality says: "good words are not beautiful, good words are not believed; those who are good do not argue, and those who argue are not good."
not arguing, that is, tolerance, is the self-cultivation and virtue of building a world for human beings.
when people reach middle age, they become more and more mature. After seeing the ups and downs of the world, they will never care about their immediate gains and losses.
after all, life is about going your own way, eating your own food, and has nothing to do with others.
to allow others to set their beak and keep their original mind is not only to forgive others, but also to forgive themselves.
Western Han Dynasty litterateur Liu Xiangzeng said: "if the mountain is sharp, it is not high, and if the water is narrow, it is not deep."
the mountain is too steep, it is not too high, the water is narrow, and it is not too deep.
Mount Qomolangma is the roof of the world because of its vast foothills. The sea is deep because of the vastness of the waves.
people's mind should be like Mount Qomolangma, such as the sea, can swallow mountains and rivers before they can have wide mountains and rivers.
if you can tolerate people, you will be admired when you go out, and you will be full of friends when you enter.
be able to handle things, if you retreat, you will have a broad sky, and if you enter, you will rise to a higher level.
be tolerant, the code is self-cultivation, the attack is in full swing.
May we all become broad-minded people and make the road of life beautiful and fragrant.
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