Good character is the magic weapon to overcome everything.
character determines fate.
this sentence has never been said casually.
what Hu Tianlan, a medical philosopher, said:
"of all the adverse factors, the most likely to cause short-lived death are bad mood and bad mood, such as worry, fear, greed, cowardice, jealousy and hatred."
when you are alive, your character is the "master" of your destiny.
what character, what life
"our troubles and pains are not because of the things themselves, but because of our ideas about these things."
A sentence from psychologist Adler awakens countless people in their dreams.
in this world, where there is light, there is darkness, and where there is a smooth road, there are ups and downs, but whether we can find light in the dark and walk out of the rough road depends on ourselves.
give a very famous example.
two people went to Africa to sell shoes, and one came back depressed and said, "they have no shoes and no future!"
another person came back and said excitedly, "they all have no shoes, and the potential of the market is too great!"
the same thing, different personalities will have different mindsets, and different mindsets will affect different outcomes.
optimistic and positive people, focusing on things themselves, can always find vitality in difficulties;
but negative and pessimistic people are apt to worry about gains and losses if they think too much, and they will miss the opportunity.
this is what the ancients said: "things change with the heart, circumstances are created by the heart, and troubles are created by the heart."
Life is a variable everywhere, and only when you laugh to wait for it can you be at ease.
keeping a good state of mind is the source of happiness;
shaping a good character is where happiness lies.
what personality, who do you meet
some people say:
"everyone is surrounded by a magnetic field. No matter where you are, the magnetic field will follow you, and your magnetic field attracts people and things with the same magnetic field."
what kind of person you are, what kind of friends you will meet;
what kind of person you are, what kind of lover you will meet;
what kind of person you are, what kind of life you will meet.
therefore, if you want to live a wonderful life, you should stop complaining about your surroundings and envy others. Only by making yourself a better person can you meet with a better life.
the so-called good luck is all self-seeking.
Bing Xin asked, "do you have a boyfriend?"
tie Ning replied, "I haven't found it yet."
Bing Xin looked at tie Ning and said firmly to her, "Don't look for it, you have to wait."
it was Bing Xin's words full of Zen machines that left a deep impression on tie Ning and made her understand a truth:
if you don't want to make do with a marriage, you can't choose to make do.
so for nearly 30 years, tie Ning was no longer anxious or impatient, but devoted all her energies to her work and writing.
finally, I finally met my soul mate, Watson.
Yi Shu said:
"each of us is our own home."
good character is the best sign
Why is life different?
some people rely on strength, others on luck, but ultimately on their own state of mind.
when a person becomes complaining and no longer optimistic, life will be bleak.
on the contrary, let the heart strong, let the mentality young, package the suffering into a gift, and then throw it back beautifully, is the posture of the strong.
some time ago, Yu Zeqin, a hundred-year-old granny foodie in Chengdu, went viral.
she, who loves hot pot, sweet food and roast duck, often says "you know a shovel" and has 6.31 million fans sitting on the platform.
granddaughter Tsai Yi-en says that Grandma's only way to keep in good health is to have a good mindset!
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"mindset determines everything. If there are some things that can't be solved by one meal, then have two meals."
indeed, you and I are both passers-by between heaven and earth, so there is no need to tie the knot.
the better the state of mind, the less trouble, the more smiles, the wider the sky and the wider the earth.
the Ballad of Relief also once said:
when the sun rises in the East China Sea and sets in the West Mountain, there is also a day of sorrow and a day of joy.
when things happen, people are comfortable and their hearts are at ease.
Life is only a few decades. Instead of being depressed in sorrow and depression, it is better to learn to be strong and optimistic and move forward bravely.
when a person smiles often, the world will respond with the greatest kindness.
likes a sentence very much:
"if the state of mind changes, the attitude changes; the attitude changes, the habits change; the habits change, the character changes; the character changes, life changes."
having a good character is more important than anything else.
an optimist must be strong enough to face it calmly no matter how much he loses.
Open-minded people must be positive and sunny, and they can smile even though they have experienced pain.
unyielding people must be brave and decisive, even if the times are difficult, they can move forward bravely!
LongfrostYan: "there is still a bright sunny day behind the dark clouds."
A good character is the magic weapon to overcome everything.
therefore, I firmly believe that every person with a good character will break through the siege under the numerous tests of life and finally get out of the haze.
, there is a long way to go, and if we go on, we will have a bright future.