Money is not only the strength of adults, but also the resistance of adults to risks.
two days ago, I saw a video showing that at three o'clock in the morning, my son didn't sleep while playing games. The father called him up and took him to the vegetable market to see the fireworks in the world.
it was raining at that time, but the vegetable market at four o'clock in the morning was already brightly lit.
some people are guarding the vegetable stall with umbrellas, while others are sorting out melons, fruits and vegetables with searchlights on their heads.
Father asked, "do you know why these people don't sleep?"
the son replied, "to make a living, to make money."
whether it's the wine table at one o'clock in the morning, the security kiosk at two o'clock, the farm at three o'clock, the vegetable market at four o'clock, the street at five o'clock.
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there are many people who run around for a living and want to sleep but can't sleep.
your salary includes some grievances
in this world, there has never been a job that is easy, and no job is unaggrieved.
have seen such a news:
early in the morning, a takeout guy was sleeping in the street.
when asked, he had to get up at 3 o'clock every morning to deliver food, and didn't take a nap on the fitness equipment in the park until he was short of orders at seven or eight o'clock.
then why not go home and have a rest?
isn't the bed at home more comfortable?
he said, "
because I have to work at ten o'clock. Sleeping like this can save time on the way back and forth.
day after day, year after year, I don't know how many times the takeout guy has to get up at three o'clock in the morning and how long he has to sleep on the park bench.
but I know that the time saved in this way can help him send more orders and earn a few more yuan.
even more aggrieved, it is not the only way to have a rest.
when talking about the bad reviews of customers, the little brother couldn't help it for a moment and burst into tears.
he said that every time a customer gives a bad review, he will be fined 100 yuan.
100 yuan, which is equivalent to working for nothing all day.
he has also been punished two or three times, and sometimes the merchants are slow to eat, traffic jams on the road, and the community is not allowed to enter. He obviously does not blame himself, but no one listens to him no matter how he explains it.
he covers his eyes helplessly and does this job. There is too much grievance for him to earn more and earn less.
is it possible not to be aggrieved?
remember a sentence I read not long ago:
if you are aggrieved, you want to go home, and if your work is not going well, you want to resign.
however, you can't go back home if you want to. You have to have money, and you can't quit your job if you want to. After all, life needs money.
the adult world never falls down everywhere, and there is support behind it.
most of the time, who is not injured while self-healing.
without a job without grievances, no one's life can be plain sailing.
the salary and growth brought about by every job will always be accompanied by grievances and hard work.
in every job, there are grievances that are difficult to say to others, and hardships that others cannot understand.
your salary includes part of the grievance fee.
making money can make up for the imbalance between body and mind
saw a piece of news on the Internet.
there was a big brother who was suspected of having a seizure. He couldn't stand still and fainted in the subway car, his face covered with blood.
the subway crew quickly rescued him from the car and wanted to take him to the hospital, but the first thing he said when he woke up was that I had to go to work.
many people can't help crying when they see the video and think of their past as beaters.
there is a joke that is teased like this--
two people bumped into each other on their bikes and quarreled there.
one said: "
you ride so fast to be reincarnated!
the other said faintly: "
if I am in a hurry to be reincarnated, I can put it off for a minute. I am in a hurry to get to work. I am a minute late and work for nothing.
suddenly, both of them stopped talking.
Yes, other things can be put off, but going to work counts against time.
the world of adults is full of sadness that you can't understand.
it may be that one minute late and one month's full attendance bonus will be deducted.
may be getting up early in the morning and working late at night, only to earn an extra 200 yuan in subsidy.
in the face of the heavy pressure of life, we can't even say "take care of your health".
think of a brother Liu in Zibo, Shandong Province, who is engaged in dangerous high-altitude construction.
you need to work at high altitude for 9 hours by hanging a rope every day.
over the course of a year, you can earn 60,000 or 70,000 yuan.
many people don't understand, "how dangerous it is, why do you spell it like that?"
Brother Liu told the story of his son. He said, "my son is in junior high school. He eats in the canteen every day and eats very little.
one day he couldn't help asking his son, "
Why didn't you eat?
the son replied, "
it's not easy for you to make money outside, so I eat less.
as he spoke, the 35-year-old strong man could not help blushing his eyes.
Yes, in order for the child to have a full meal and to study hard, he faces the heat and danger.
work not only makes him tired, aggrieved and dangerous, but also gives him the strength to support the life of the whole family.
money is not only the strength of adults, but also the resistance of adults to risks.
people who are really good will turn grievances into execution
I have read a survey report asking people over the age of 60: what is the thing you regret most in this life?
among them, 75% of the answer is: they didn't work hard enough when they were young, resulting in nothing.
hard work, it's not that simple to say.
it not only requires you to overcome inertia, have long-term and short-term goals, but more importantly, be undisturbed by negative emotions.
and the feeling of grievance is the easiest to wear away a person's fighting spirit.
I have seen people who have just started the job a few months ago because they were criticized by their boss for leaving.
have also seen people who swallow grievances, turn them into executive power, and advance head-on.
if we want to have a head start in life, and if we don't regret when we are old, the only thing we can do is to turn this kind of bad mood into execution.
once heard an entrepreneur talk about his experience.
when he first started his business, many people around him looked down on him. When he went to the lobby of the hotel to shine his shoes for passing guests, he was kneeling.
he was driven out more than once for going in and out of all kinds of office buildings to promote products.
former classmates watched him shine his shoes on his knees and secretly laughed at him for being shameless.
he thought of giving up, but giving up means achieving nothing, moving forward, and maybe there is still a chance of survival.
with the contempt of the people around me, overcoming the inferiority complex in the depths of my heart and overcoming the grievances that spread from time to time, it became a necessary thing to do at that time.
later, when he made a small success in his career, he said to me:
"at that time, even if others looked down on me, I tried my best to control myself and not feel sorry for myself."
with this drive, he got the first bucket of gold, opened the first shop, promised his wife a good life, and he did it.
every time I get aggrieved at work, I always think of him at that time.
Luo Zhenyu said:
nothing in life will ever be bad forever. Cheer up! Temporary grievances are not worth mentioning, optimistic and positive, the future is bound to rise.
there is a passage on the Internet that is very true:
work hard to make money, not because you love money more.
but in this life, I don't want to be inferior to anyone because of money, and I don't want to embarrass anyone because of money.
I only hope that when my parents are old, I can afford to share; when my children need it, I will not run out of money.
working hard and making more money while you are young can not only fill your inner anxiety, but also bring sense of security to your family.
there is still a long way to go. In the rest of your life, may you adjust your mindset, work hard, work hard for the things you like, do your best for the guardians, and make your life worthwhile.
Don't forget that work may bring grievances. But the reward it brings can cure unease.
, share with you.